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How many of you are going through your closets deciding what shirts bring you joy? The Marie Kondo plan of simplifying is not a new one. The yogic concept of saucha or cleanliness has been around for millennia and feeds into this idea of austerity. If you understand the 8 limbs of yoga, much of it is about eliminating suffering. Within the first limb of yoga is the concept of saucha. Here we find removing clutter also helps clear the mind which in turn helps reduce suffering.
I need only glance at the mess on my desk to know that it brings me anxiety/suffering. Where to start is always the issue. I’m tempted to throw everything in a burn barrel and start over. No, that’s not the answer but the solution often seems overwhelming. This has happened to many of us. We have become overwhelmed. We’ve accumulated so many things, whether they be papers, books, cars, shoes or problems that we don’t know where to start. Thank goodness for others who have come up with processes that work.
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If you’ve ever watched any of the cooking shows, you’ll notice that chefs clean as they go, wiping spills and washing knives right after use. Much of life SHOULD go this way and yet the socks somehow can’t quite hit the hamper. Note that putting the socks IN the hamper takes a millisecond and creates a cleaner space in your room. Are you willing to give two shits for some happiness? Translate this into the dining room after a meal when instead of leaving dishes on the table you instantly put them in the dishwasher, or when you come into your home you leave your shoes by the door and put your keys in a pretty dish where you can easily and quickly locate them the next morning.
Another process I’ve found useful is the 15 minute rule. “I’ll only do this for 15 minutes.” (Pinterest task list) Completely cleaning off my desk or cleaning my house is instantly overwhelming. But if I can tell myself, I'll just clean for 15 minutes then the task seems manageable. I use this method with a lot of things in my life. Even writing. I like it because I can see an endpoint and I don't feel as though it has to be perfect, I just have to get started. Getting started several days in a row, gets things done. Also, I don't limit myself to 15 minutes. If I want to longer, then I give myself permission to do as much as I like.
One of the other yogic practices related to saucha is kriya or cleansing techniques. There are a litany of these and I won't go into all of them here. You can see and try a few by referring back to my blog from January. Suffice to say the yogis found living in the corporeal world a little trying. They're were constantly finding things about the body to clean. They cleaned their diet by often being vegan or fasting. They did intense water cleanses of the digestive, respiratory and excretory systems. Some of these were done around the change of the seasons. All of this was done in an effort to remove any impurities that might hamper their ability to reach enlightenment. Today we learn from these techniques but we don't have to adhere to them.
When it comes to removing clutter, we might also want to turn the spotlight on our relationships. How are the people in our lives supporting us? Do they bring us joy or suffering? If they are bringing suffering, are we willing distance ourselves from them? Some feel compelled to keep certain people in their lives because they are family or we've known them since childhood. But if these people are toxic and preventing from us growing and succeeding it might be time to let them go. I stopped talking with my dad for about a year when his PTSD got to a point where I could barely have a conversation with him without it turning into a full blown argument. My parent's home was no longer safe for me. We both went into counseling in separate ways but were eventually able to come back together and are now closer than ever.
This spring I tell myself I will take everything out of my clothing closet and keep only what brings me joy, 15 minutes at a time.
What a timely post! I so need to clean out the closet and put away winter clothing and take out spring and summer. I can't seem to find my mojo, though.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing. I'm getting better at limiting my social time with more positive souls. I especially like the idea of giving myself permission to only clean for 15 minutes.
ReplyDeleteI love this post! I use that 15min rule on exercise as well, and it works! Once you start, you feel better. T
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Cynthia. Certainly is food for thought. I keep looking at my closest saying-I'll start tomorrow. I'll give the 15 mins a try.
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